Communicating with Bishops
By Thomas P. Doyle, O.P., J.C.D.
April 13, 2005

The Catholic Church’s political structure is hierarchical by design. All power flows down from the top.
Furthermore, all real power resides in specific individuals and not in collegiate groups or corporate
structures.  This has been the case throughout the history of institutionalized Catholicism. This political
structure has created a culture surrounding the leadership.  This culture has in turn produced pre-conditioned
responses to different forms of communication.

The hierarchical governmental system has given rise to two things: the first has been the style of government,
meaning the way authority is exercised.  The style is generally monarchical which means that the focus is on
the leader and not on the subjects.  The second phenomenon has been the ascendance of an aristocracy
composed of the clergy.  Power, privilege, prestige and financial control are vested in individuals and all of
these are members of the clergy.  Though lay persons have been included on many levels of church
administration, all real power is in the hands of a small group of celibate, male clerics.  Even here, the power
is limited to a select group of clerics, the bishops.

In 1906 Pius X issued an encyclical which described the political structure of the Catholic Church:

THIS CHURCH IS ESSENCE AN UNEQUAL SOCIETY, THAT IS TO SAY A SOCIETY  
COMPRISING TWO CATEGORIES OF PERSONS, THE SHEPHERD AND THE FLOCK....THESE
CATEGORIES ARE SO DISTINCT THAT THE RIGHT AND AUTHORITY NECESSARY FOR
PROMOTING AND GUIDING ALL THE MEMBERS TOWARD THE GOAL OF SOCIETY RESIDE
ONLY IN THE PASTORAL BODY; AS TO THE MULTITUDE, ITS SOLE DUTY IS THAT OF
ALLOWING ITSELF TO BE LED AND OF FOLLOWING ITS PASTORS AS A DOCILE FLOCK
[Italics in original document changed to ALL CAPS].

This statement captures the enduring belief about the fundamental nature of the institutional church.  Though
Vatican II defined the Church as the “People of God,” the official theology and law of the Church still hold
that the hierarchical division is of divine origin.  Nevertheless, this description of the Christian community has
shallow roots in authentic theology and no verifiable basis in scripture.  In other words, the constant claim that
Christ intended a hierarchical structure when he founded the Church is based on nebulous historical evidence.
There is no indication from the writings of the first three centuries that Christ ever intended to found a church
as such nor that he consciously established a hierarchical system.  The Apostles emerged from the Last
Supper as potential leaders of the future “church” though they hardly knew it at the time.  That they emerged
as archbishops, newly ordained by Christ the High Priest is a segment of Catholic mythology but not an
essential and proven element of authentic ecclesiology.

The above statements sum up not only a theological position but a deeply rooted attitude that permeates the
consciousness and emotions not only of bishops but many lay people as well.  The concept of a stratified
ecclesial society enables the fallacy of clericalism which enters directly into all communications with the
hierarchy.  The bishops believe that they are singled out by the Almighty as the anointed teachers, legislators,
executives and judges of Christ’s community here on earth.  The faithful are taught to believe this teaching
from their first years of catechetical instruction and consequently taught to hold the bishops in the highest
respect and esteem.  

The Catholic Church rests on a sacramental system.  The seven sacraments are the particularly important if
not essential encounters with Christ.  Belief in the official theology of the sacraments is essential for a
Catholic.  The sacraments are necessary for salvation, as we are taught.  The way to the sacraments is
through the ordained clergy, especially the priests but ultimately the custodians of the sacraments are the
bishops.  Catholics learn early on that salvation is mediated through the Church but not the Church as a vast
throng of believers scattered throughout the world.  It is mediated through the Church’s ordained leaders.  
These leaders determine who may receive a sacrament.  They control access to the means of salvation and as
such, they hold great power which supports the respect in which they are held and enables also the fear
experienced by so many Catholics.

Traditionally the obvious power imbalance determined the quality of communications with the hierarchy and
the hierarchy’s belief in its divine origin formed the emotional response to any communications that were
critical or challenging.  Often, rather than respond to the substance of a criticism or challenging question, a
bishop reacts defensively, asking how his authority can possibly be questioned.  The fundamental issue is lost
in the perceived threat to the bishop’s authority.  This attitude is enforced by the church’s own political
structures which reserve all power to bishops and limit the participation of collegiate or corporate bodies to
consultation.

The clergy sex abuse phenomenon has changed the way Catholics communicate with bishops.  Accustomed
to always controlling every situation, the bishops have reluctantly learned that this is no longer the case.  Since
the canonical structures of the Church provide no basis or avenues for communication based on the concept
of equality of participants, the aggrieved have sought relief in the civil courts of the U.S. and several other
countries.  The bishops were faced with a power equal to and in many ways surpassing their own.  The result
has generally been defensiveness, de-valuation of the abuse survivors, and anger.

The frustration and anger engendered in tens of thousands of sex abuse victims as well as millions of laity over
the sordid revelations of abuse and coverup has changed the way a significant segment of the Catholic and
non-Catholic population communicates with bishops.  As the “scandal” unfolded and more and more was
revealed in the media and in the courts, trust and respect for bishops rapidly eroded and with it the traditional
belief in the nature of the episcopacy.

In short, communication has been challenging, confrontative and driven by anger, distrust and cynicism.  
Those directly involved with the sex abuse phenomenon, including victims, their loved ones and supporters,
the media and attorneys, have been astonished, disappointed and saddened by the arrogance, dishonesty and
lack of compassion manifested by many bishops.  In time the bishops realized that they have lost the trust and
respect of many.  Yet the fundamental attitude of superiority still permeates most conversations about
significant issues facing the Catholic Church.

The anger and mistrust has prevented true communication.  Many bishops have immediately focused on the
challenge to their authority rather than the reason for the anger.  It certainly appears that the horror of the
sexual abuse of countless children, minors and vulnerable adults has been overshadowed for many bishops,
by the affront to their dignity, the rejection of their authority and the disrespect for their persons and their
office.  In fact, most of the anger experienced by the victims, their supporters and others seeking reform and
change is grounded in the enormity of the crimes and the perceived inability of many bishops to fully realize
the gravity of the situation.  They have reason to be angry and disrespectful of bishops.  As many have said
time after time, “they just don’t get it.  They think its all about them.”

The welfare of the victims should be the primary concern of the institutional Church because these men and
women, boys and girls, have not only had their bodies and their emotions deeply scarred, but their souls
devastated.  For a Church whose ultimate and foundational mission is the “salvation of souls” there seems to
have been precious little concern for the souls of those faithful and trusting Catholics who were raped and
brutalized by priests and bishops.

The agenda of the victims and survivors has remained constant.  First, they want the bishops to acknowledge
that their abuse is real.  They want to be believed.   They do not want to be patronized nor will they be
satisfied with wringing hands, profuse apologies and promises of prayer.  They want to be able to believe that
the bishops truly understand the horror and trauma they have experienced.  In looking for some sign of an
honest cognitive and emotional response, too many have been disappointed and walked away convinced that
they were viewed as a threat or a nuisance and not an emotional and spiritual casualty.

Second, they have wanted the bishops to do something about the perpetrators.  Many began with well
justified thoughts of revenge but miraculously, most worked through this and sought only assurance that the
men and women who raped their bodies and souls be provided help but mostly, be restricted from ever being
able to hurt another person, young or old.  In all too many cases the victims found out to their shock that the
promises made were never kept.  Perpetrators were re-cycled and more children were hurt.

Third, the victims and indeed the Catholic and general public have wanted honest answers from the bishops
to some very painful and fundamental questions.  Why did they coverup and allow known child abusers to
move from place to place?  Why did they ignore victims and not offer any significant pastoral care?  Why
have they consistently and stubbornly refused to look at their own style of governing to find the answers to
such devastating questions?

Finally, Why has the image of the institutional Church’s leadership been more important than the spiritual and
emotional welfare of the tens of thousands of clergy abuse victims.  To these questions there have been no
answers.  There has only been more equivocation, more diversionary tactics and more arrogance.  

Experience has clearly shown that not every bishop has failed to realize the enormity of this era.  It is simply
improbable that some or even many have not reacted with horror and found honest compassion in their hearts
for the victims and for Catholics in general, angry and disappointed that their trust has been betrayed.  Yet the
body of bishops remain defensive and aloof.  The good will and efforts of those who truly “get it” are hidden
by the intransigence of those who continue to focus on themselves, trapped in a narcissistic self-image that
serves as a barrier to true insight from getting in and authentic pastoral compassion from getting out.

It is tragic that it took a nightmare such as the clergy abuse scandal to cause the laity to awaken from the
spiritual coma induced by clericalism and began to realize that they must be adults in Church as well as in their
homes, their places of work and in secular society in general.   The results have been predictable.  Lay men
and women who have confronted and questioned have been accused of everything from misunderstanding to
heresy.  Some, when asking for discussion and dialogue have been told that there will be none unless the
hierarchic authority is acknowledged.  In other words, dress like a grown-up for the meeting, but act like a
docile, obedient and fearful child.  Communicating with bishops on a level playing field is, by tradition,
theologically and canonically impossible.  Yet it is essential if the Church is to really be the Body of Christ and
if the leaders hope to be seen as pastors and not bureaucrats in medieval dress.  Catholic lay men and
women are forced to acknowledge the irrational fears that always caused them to bow in deference before
“father” much less “His Excellency.”  They must meet these fears head on, acknowledge them and move past
them. Too much is at stake.

The lay people must forge the new set of rules for communicating with the hierarchs.  Heretofore there have
been two basic behavior patterns from the pre-abuse days, and an additional pattern born of the scandal.  In
the days when all lived the reality of the church as a stratified society, the lay people deferred to the bishops
and generally believed that their assessments, conclusions and action plans were always right.  This was
almost always true in direct dealings with bishops.  When out of earshot however, some lay persons often
expressed disagreement, disappointment or even anger at bishops and their actions.  Yet none would ever
confront or forcibly question them.  That simply wasn’t done.  They were, after all, the divinely appointed
successors of the apostles.

With the scandal came a third way of communicating and that was through direct and often angry
confrontation.  Forced by the media and the courts to face the issues, the bishops could hardly retreat to the
security of their offices, confident that the clamor would dissipate in time and all would return to normal.  The
deference, respect and trust that had been seared into Catholic souls quickly evaporated and was replaced
by anger and disdain.  In general, irrational anger has not served to persuade the bishops of the validity and
urgency of the survivors’ complaints.  However, the angry encounters with bishops, including the vociferous
demonstrations that have taken place at chanceries and cathedrals, have not been without impact.  Though
the bishops have tried to give the impression of being above the fray and immune from the anger and emotion,
it remains painfully true that this form of communication has shocked many bishops into the realization that
they can no longer presume deference and respect.

       Both sides of the conversation have been hardened.  Some bishops won’t allow VOTF to meet on
Church property, mindlessly accusing them of having “agendas,” being “anti-Catholic,” “fostering dissent” or
worst of all, failing to respect the bishops. Clerics openly associated with VOTF, SNAP or other
organizations deemed unacceptable by some bishops, have been criticized, shunned or, in the case of some
priests or deacons, unjustly penalized. Since there is no valid basis for accusing either group of being
heretical, anti-Catholic or dissenting, they are vilified,  not because their message is heretical or dissenting, but
because their anger and confrontative tactics are more than the bishops can handle.  What is being lost in all
of this is the path to mutual understanding.

       The victims and many lay people believe the bishops not only will not, but cannot get it.  The bishops for
their part, are probably convinced that in their anger, the victims and their supporters will never be able to see
and accept their side nor the honest and sincere concern many have for the victims.  The goal should not be
beating one or the other side into submission.  The goal should be to arrive at a minimal degree of mutual
respect so as to begin to listen to one another rather than talking at one another.  Disagreement need not
always be covered in anger.

       The time for confrontation that is predominantly angry and irrational is past.  In most cases the anger and
rage have been amply justified.  Yet it has caused many bishops to become hardened in their attitudes
towards all victims and survivors and towards all lay people whom they believe have had the temerity to
question them.  The time for confrontation on a level playing field is not past and never will be.  There is much
to confront and many hard questions yet to be answered.  Name calling and verbal abuse are as much a
barrier to needed answers as is the infantile deference that has enabled clericalism to flourish and control.  
Fear must be banished.  

Bishops who refuse to include lay people and survivors on every level of discussion and decision making
about the response to the clergy abuse scandal must be confronted and, in a rational, firm yet respectful
manner, asked to explain such an exclusion.  Those who have accused VOTF, SNAP or other groups of
having hidden agendas, of being dissenters, of heresy, or anti-Catholicism must be confronted and asked to
explain in detail the reasons for these accusations and the sources of their information.  Those who have
refused to reveal the names of verified sex abusers or who have secretly reassigned known offenders must be
confronted and asked to provide an explanation to the people of God.  

There is no longer room for fear, secrecy or arrogance.  Far too much is at stake and far too many souls have
been devastated.

It is possible to confront the contradictions between the spirit of Vatican II and spirit of clerical mistrust.  In
doing so it is essential to understand the clerical context from which the opposition arises.  The bishop is
essential to the institutional structure of the Church.  The theological and structural tradition teaches that the
church is founded on the bishops who are therefore essential for its very existence.  The chain of authority in
the three-fold office of the bishop is believed to be the divinely directed means whereby God communicates
with mortals.  Consequently, challenges to bishops are perceived as much more than personal attacks or
manifestations of disrespect.  Such challenges are expressions of disbelief in an essential tenet of faith.

On the other side, the victims and others who challenge the bishops’ autocratic exercise of authority do not
see such challenges as an affront to a doctrinal issue.  Rather they see them as a reaction to the reality of
authority either mis-used or abused.  The bishops see themselves as divinely appointed leaders and the their
critics see them as flawed administrators.

The differences are not solely about power.  The differences are about a variety of issues that are far more
serious than ownership of power.  Soul murder, rape, sexual assault, character assassination, slander and
financial mismanagement are some of the known abuses that many are up in arms about.  These issues will
not go away nor will they be rectified unless drastic attitudinal changes take place, primarily on the part of the
church’s leadership.

Building bridges and opening lines of true communication between the bishops and lay people is a noble goal
for members of the Christian community but it will never happen without integrity and trust.  Trust will not
happen until the traditional secrecy and its sibling, fear, are eradicated.  Lay people should not fear honest
confrontation with bishops or other church leaders.  This is an essential step in the search for truth and
accountability.  Banishing the fear that always lurked in the background is the beginning of authentic Christian
empowerment.  Searching for plausible answers does not equal disrespect nor is it a sign of dissent.  Above
all it is a sign that one has accepted the sometimes painful and challenging responsibility of adult membership
in the Body of Christ.

Confrontation need not equal fanaticism.  Working together begins with dialogue and dialogue cannot begin
with capitulation.  Lay persons have been nurtured by an ecclesial culture that made true dialogue impossible.  
The duplicity revealed by the sex abuse scandal led to the subsequent erosion of trust and respect for clerics
and especially bishops.  This will be reversed when both sides move beyond roles and see one another as
Christians.  This will be much more difficult for bishops but this does not mean that lay men and women can
or should retreat to mindless deference.  

In conclusion, I believe that authentic dialogue is essential and possible.  This means calling the issues in truth
with first concern for those harmed.  Confrontation however does not mean irrational anger nor can it be
productive if minds and hearts are closed to the possibility of good will.


Thomas P. Doyle, O.P., J.C.D.
April 13, 2005
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